Class Description:
Based in part on the books, "The Explosive Child" by Ross Greene, Ph.D., and "Treating the Explosive Child" by Dr. Stuart Ablon and Dr. Ross Greene, this 5-week course supports parents through a variety of positive parenting techniques. Participants will learn Collaborative Problem Solving, a method described by Dr. Greene and Dr. Ablon in their books, which helps parents understand how to best solve problems and reduce meltdowns.
Increased cooperation and communication occur as families incorporate the class methods into their home life. The strategies taught are most helpful for parents of children ages 4 through young adult who are able to communicate verbally. This course can be effective for all children, regardless of diagnosis - or even if there is no specific diagnosis.
Each participating parent will receive course materials and have access to the instructor via weekly email consultation.
Week One: Participants will learn what may be keeping their child from being able to respond appropriately. They will discover issues that can cause a child to exhibit behavioral problems, and learn how to look at their child and their child's behavior in a new way. They will learn to recognize triggers for their child's difficult behaviors.
Week Two: Participants will look more closely at triggers and pathways. They will learn why popular parenting methods are not working for their child and will learn how Collaborative Problem Solving (CPS) will both reduce meltdowns and teach their child new skills in those areas in which they are lagging. They will learn the three steps to using CPS and when to implement it. They will also learn how using CPS will teach their child needed skills for adult life.
Week Three: Class examines common roadblocks as well as those specific issues with which the participating parents are dealing. They will share success stories and role play using CPS in typical situations. Participants will learn how to be sure they are using CPS appropriately, and will learn the value of positive communication and how to use it effectively.
Week Four: Participants learn what skills are needed to participate in CPS, and what to do if their child is lacking those skills. They will learn about different uses of CPS. In-depth help focused upon difficulties parents are experiencing is offered. Parents will learn how outside influences can affect their use of CPS and what to do about it. They will also learn when it may be necessary to seek outside help for counseling, language processing, sensory issues, medication, placement and other issues.
Week Five: Participants will share successes and difficulties. They will learn what to do when setbacks occur. Implementing CPS into a behavior plan at school will be discussed, as well as common triggers at school and what to do about them.
Recommended Reading
The following books are complementary to course material and will help participants make the most of their investment of time and money. They are not necessary to course completion.
"The Explosive Child" by Ross Greene, Ph.D., second or third edition
"How to Talk so Kids can Learn" by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
"Positivity" by Barbara L. Fredrickson, Ph.D., paperback edition